If you didn't remember it, would it still get done?
That's the mental load: the noticing, planning and reminding that quietly lands on one person. Two careers and one kitchen. Flatmates on different shifts. Co-parents across two front doors. Benudge takes that work off you and puts it where everyone can see it, so things get done without you being the reason. One subscription covers every seat; the others join with a link.
The list stops living in your head
Say it once and it lands on every phone as an event, a list item or a chore. You stop being the reason things get done.
Reminding stops being your job
Benudge learns when each person actually does things. Nobody is nudged inside their own window, and nobody else has to watch the clock.
The argument you never have again
A photo and a verdict mean done is done. The person who did it gets the points. The others get a ❤.
Shared board, private you
The others see the calendar, chores, lists and points. Never your Debrief text, your Energy or your health data.
No clock-watching. No "did you do the bins?" text. Just done, on their time.
Benudge learns when each of you actually gets a job done, from the Done tap, what you say in your Debrief and the free gaps in your calendar. Three repeats and it stops nudging inside that window; two quiet weeks and it's a habit. Sam takes the bins out around 11pm? No nudge at 9:30, and whoever opens the board sees "Don't worry, Sam usually has these out by 11." Slip past your own window and you get two nudges, then the chore is offered to someone else at 1.2× points. Your pattern stays private to you and is only ever used to run the product, never for ads.
Whatever your home looks like
Two careers, one home
Both out all day, both done by 8pm. Nobody runs the evening like a second job.
Flatmates on different shifts
Bins, bathroom, shared shop. Everyone sees whose turn it is, and proof means nobody has to check.
Co-parents, two front doors
Dentist, kit bag, pick-ups. One calendar across both homes, with a column each and no group chat.
Looking after a parent
Meds, appointments, a weekly shop. Siblings share one board, so it never falls to whoever lives closest.